Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Tribute to Rick Jones

I wrote a tribute not too long ago to Tom Negoshian who coached his last game at North Farmington High School before retiring and I referenced how this year would be the end of an era at North Farmington with his retirement along with the retirement of Rick Jones. So in thinking about what I would write about Rick I started to think back to my experiences with him and the impact he had on me and how I would characterize what he has meant to the community. This one is easy from the standpoint that I can find plenty of great things to say about him, but it’s tough because I don’t have time to write a whole book and it’s hard to find things to say that haven’t been said about him by just about everyone whose lives he has touched.
I am proud to say that I was there when he first returned home to North Farmington after teaching and coaching in Panama City, Florida in 1987. He was my track and field coach at North and I was a captain on that first team of his. He was a great coach and teacher and immediately had an impact on me as someone who was genuine and was doing what he did for the right reasons. I love to tell people how he proof read and corrected my essay on my application to Michigan when I was a senior. I started attending North Farmington games when my oldest brother was a sophomore in 1976 so I have a deep appreciation for the tradition and history of football at North, and I was drawn to that about Mr. Jones because there is NO ONE who is more about uplifting the tradition of North Farmington and the North community than him. After I graduated I never stopped coming back and I got to watch the transformation of the school as he started to stamp his imprint on the school and literally remold the place in his image. If that sounds like hyperbole it really isn’t.....
What’s nice about writing this down on paper is that Rick won’t have a chance to deflect credit to everyone else but himself in the middle of this and deny that he’s different than everyone else and such a special guy. He refuses to acknowledge this - he is humble and modest to a fault. The trip to Africa, bringing the President, prominent authors, and a piece of the World Trade Center to NFHS, instilling how "It's A Great Day To Be A Raider” in every student, connecting everyone to North’s glorious past through all kinds of ways - he would tell you these things are really not so extraordinary - really just simple deeds that make sense for a guy who cares and loves his job and his school and the result of the hard work of a lot of people. He’s not wrong, but does anyone believe that any of these things would have been possible without his leadership? I thought not.
At one point I thought that “throwback” might be a good word to describe what Mr. Jones is about because they don’t make ‘em like him anymore - that type of thing. But that word is not enough when it comes to Rick. I looked it up and it’s defined as “one that is suggestive of or suited to an earlier time or style”. Rick and I talked recently after we celebrated 50 years of Raider football last fall, and he was waxing poetic about how recently he and Ron Holland (North Farmington coaching legend) were discussing and wondering what is it about North Farmington that makes it such a special place? Because it really is - alumni come back from far and wide to support the school and relive a little the special memories they have of the place. Rick Jones said he told Ron Holland that it all goes back to him - that Coach Holland started it all and created a strong sense of pride in the school that meant so much to so many. I told Rick and I’ll repeat it now that I think he is equally responsible since he brought that feeling back and tied the past to the present, and by doing so his legacy will last far into the future with the thousands of students who will always feel connected to North Farmington. So throwback isn’t enough - he has moved North Farmington forward.
Congratulations to Mr. Jones on his retirement - one of the most exceptional people I have ever met in my life and a man I am truly honored to call my friend.
Doug Cohen
March 30th, 2011

Friday, March 4, 2011

Tribute to Coach "Nogo"

Tonight will be the last regular season home basketball game Tom Negoshian will coach at North Farmington High School since he is retiring from coaching. I will be there. While I did not actually play varsity basketball for "Nogo", he coached my brother Jeff in the late 70's and he was (along with head coach Dave Catherman) my first football coach at Warner Middle School in the fall of 1983, and we were undefeated that season going 6-0. It was a great introduction to football and one of the most fun years I had playing. Knowing Nogo for most of my life I can say that he is one of those rare guys that really gets it. He coaches hard but fair, is passionate but also hilarious as most of the best coaches are, and he is a great teacher. He remembers every guy who ever played for him which is a testament to how much he cares about the relationships he builds with the players he develops - a trait that Bo always had. I have to say that as things change and life goes on, I always found a certain comfort in knowing that I could go back to North Farmington and watch Nogo doing his thing, roaming back and forth in front of the bench, yelling (sometimes screaming) at refs, coaching up players, and putting fundamentally sound Raiders out on the hardwood. He absolutely deserves a spot alongside other North Farmington legends with fields and roads named for them such as Holland, Temby, Jones and the others. Rick Jones is also retiring this year which is a whole other story, and this year will signal the end of an era with the retirement of both of these great men, but tonight Nogo deserves his own moment in the spotlight for helping make North Farmington the great place it's been over the years. Thanks Coach! Go North!